There are always a lot of happy little things waiting for two people to experience together, but there is a question that always troubles the new couple, is in the end how long to be together is suitable for love? The answer is difficult to define, because it varies from a few dates to several months or even after marriage. Foreign media Business Insider is to explore this issue through relevant research, listed the impact of happiness 3 points in time, and you, and the other half of the relationship how long to give yourself?

The report pointed out that in the early 2000s, Sandra Metts, a professor of communication at Illinois State University, conducted a study on 300 college students and found that saying I love you to the other person before sex helps maintain the relationship. However, those couples who make love directly will be more awkward and apologetic in their future interactions. Sandra Metts research also provides several behaviors that couples should do when having a relationship, including getting to know each other and sharing their first kiss experience, which will help both parties develop a trusting relationship.

Toni Coleman, a psychotherapist, points out that emotional communication between couples is fundamental to the survival of a relationship. He believes that couples can communicate and understand each other before they have sex, which can help the relationship have a positive outcome. However, there are different opinions on how long this time to understand each other, and the report discusses it according to the three time points.

1. A few weeks

Barton Goldsmith, a psychotherapist, points out that the ideal time is after 36 hours, which does not need to be continuous, but can be a dinner date and an afternoon together, so it takes the average couple weeks to reach 36 hours together. If a couple does not have sex for more than 36 hours, it is likely to reduce the desire for sex on both sides, resulting in the collapse of the relationship. The data is based on a 2012 study of sexual desire.

2. Several months

Toni Coleman has a different idea of how long it is appropriate to have a relationship, saying that couples should be dating for at least three months before having sex, because during this time couples will be in love and beauty may be in the eye of the beholder. Therefore, at least 3 months together, both sides can rationally think about the feelings of both sides, such a situation is a good state of relations.

3. Not until youre married

Some people cant have sex before marriage because of their religious beliefs, but one study found that couples who didnt have sex until they were married had better relationships after marriage.

According to a 2010 study by Brigham Young Universitys Dean Busby, the longer it takes to have sex for the first time, even after marriage, the more successful and stable the marriage is. However, there is a controversial point in this study, which is that the study was funded by the Christian church, so the target subjects of the test are often church members, which makes the results of this paper open to question.

If you find that the other person is really just good to you, want to see you happy, and will not be pressing for sex, then the time is ripe.

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